Sunday, November 7, 2010

-Relationships-

    

            Do you ever examine your close relationships? In depth. Study the feelings… the thoughts…

put words to the glances
that are silent but speak
the unspoken feelings.

            Relationships, they grow, they evolve, change, adapt. They give, give until it hurts. They love. They love the other person through the ups and downs, because they know what is really inside the other person.

            Have you ever realized that there is nearly always give and take in loving relationships? You give of yourself - time, energy, thought, love, until you are running out of resources, but you squeeze a little more, cuz you never run out of love.

            But, there is always a ‘but’, sometimes those unspoken thoughts are filled with fear, insecurity, questions, worries… What if, you start giving what you wish you were receiving? You don’t know how to ask, you can’t put your wants to words. You are afraid. Why voice these things and reveal yourself? What if the other person distances themselves?

Your ultimate fear.

            Once words are spoken, they are never erasable. Feelings once felt are hardly forgotten.

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